Dont want to spend money, only know save money children, grow up will be very stingy?

Date：2019-12-28 Publisher：

In today's society, parents are most afraid of their children's indiscriminate spending. In the face of the world of flowers, children are always unable to meet their own needs, want to buy anything home, and spend money in a lot of times without restraint. But there are also some children who are just the opposite. I like to ask my parents for money, but I don't want to spend it. Most of the time, parents joke that children are small money fans. Sometimes they feel very proud of such children's parents. They think that children will not have no money when they grow up, because such children will live and save money. But in fact, children of this type of money tank do not have the correct concept of money.

Today's children's parents will give them pocket money. Most of them will ask their parents for pocket money every week. They will also ask their parents for more money through various kinds of expenses. After asking for money, the children will not spend a cent. Finally, all of them will be saved. That's how the kids in the neighborhood are. Parents pack up at home. I was shocked to find that there was a lot of money in the cupboard. How can the family pay more? Only after careful questioning can we know that this is saved by the child. Usually, the allowance given to him is not willing to spend, nor like other children to buy snacks, but all the money is saved. My parents know that they will show off with other people. My child has a lot of money in the money tank. On second thought, such a small child began to save so much money. Parents were very happy to see this behavior. On second thought, such a small child began to save so much money. When he grew up, would he become very stingy?

Often such children will see money as very important. In their mind, money is the most important thing, not how much money they need to plan what kind of life. But watching money grow will produce a kind of fun, watching yourself have a lot of money will have a lot of sense of achievement. By contrast, the biggest characteristic of such children is stinginess. And such children are also very easy to give up a lot of enjoyment because of saving money. For example, children will not buy snacks or toys because of saving money, which is actually a painful process for children.

Maybe many parents will envy such a child. In life, each child's consumption concept is different. Therefore, each person has different forms.

According to different consumption concepts, what types of children are divided into?

First, unlimited demand type.

This kind of children as long as they see what they like will ask their parents, every time when they go out, they will see a lot of favorite toys and favorite food. When rejected, the child will threaten the parents with crying.

Second, the type of extravagance.

Such children will spend their money if they have money, and change it into something they like. For such children, spending money is a pleasure, and they experience the process of changing money into something they like

Third, the type of deposit tank.

This type of children will use all means to save money, not willing to spend money, even for their own pay, want to buy their beloved things will feel reluctant. But in such a child's heart the most proud thing is that he saved a lot of money. This is also said to only like saving money children.

Why do children save money?

In fact, it is largely influenced by parents. Many parents like to save their money carefully when they live. I hope my family has more and more savings, and publicize it at home. I think saving money is the respect for money. Whenever children can show themselves by saving money, parents will also encourage their children to have the greatest desire for money and save money. But many times, saving money is a good habit, but many things will backfire if they are excessive. If children really think too much of money, it will aggravate their choice of money. It may also affect children's future values of money, so parents must correctly guide children's consumption.

According to different types of children's consumption concept, how should parents educate?

First, the child of the piggy bank.

This kind of children's parents should guide him to consume, and properly tell him that consumption is not a wrong behavior, and a lot of consumption is a necessary process in life, so as to prevent children from overemphasizing money. Once children overemphasize money, there will be a great burden in the future growth process. Moreover, if children fail to meet their expectations, they are prone to misunderstandings 。 If this is the character of the children in the family, parents should not be too thrifty, although thrifty is good. But not too much. Don't let children think that only frugality is good, only saving is healthy. This may also make children become money worship values, so parents must be able to guide their children's correct consumption concept.

For example, when a family is doing a party, it needs to purchase a lot of things, so that children can choose how to use and how to choose things as expenses. And praise the contribution of each item of expenditure in the process. I believe that this sense of achievement will take the place of children's fun of saving money. We should let children know that they need to buy the same value when they spend money, and cultivate their love. Let children share their pocket money with other children, for example, participate in some mutual aid activities with children in poor areas, let children write clearly that money can also help other people, not necessarily save it is the best choice.