Children have these five characteristics, indicating a high IQ, but many parents mistakenly think it is a bad problem!

Date：2019-12-28 Publisher：

On the way of parenting, there is too much knowledge for us to understand. Sometimes our parents' wrong understanding and excessive scolding will only lead our children to a wrong path.

The following five "bad habits" in parents' eyes suggest that children's IQ is higher than that of their peers.

Now let's take a look:

01 like to give orders

Some children are the king of children from childhood. They like to give orders to other children and let other children do something.

Such children may seem selfish and show off, so parents may prohibit their children from giving orders to other children.

But in fact, the fact that they like to give orders shows that children have their own opinions, strong leadership and organizational ability.

In the face of such children, parents can guide them in a timely manner. As long as their children don't be too domineering and unreasonable when they give orders to other children, they can cultivate their children's organizational leadership ability from a young age.

02 words chat

Some children may talk a lot from childhood, and they are always chattering.

It's OK to chat with parents constantly at home, but they always like to chat with their classmates at school, even in class, which will not only affect their own attendance, but also affect other students' attendance, and even affect teachers' attendance. This makes many parents feel very headache!

But the habit of "chattering" just shows that children are optimistic and have strong language expression!

They are willing to communicate with others, such children will often gain better interpersonal relationship in the future life. Therefore, parents should not blindly suppress this habit of children, and eliminate the child's nature of communication.

When the child wants to communicate, the parents can calmly communicate with the child to understand the child's ideas; at the same time, they should guide the child to know when they can't talk, and tell the child if there is any idea to express in class, they can write it down first, and then communicate with the students after class.

03 motor neurodevelopment

Some children like to move around when they are in class. It's hard for them to listen to class quietly for 10 minutes.

Parents may worry about whether their children have ADHD.

But on the one hand, playing is children's nature, on the other hand, children who love to move are generally very active in thinking, and are more intelligent than children of the same age.

As long as parents give correct guidance and education, if the child can't stop, they may as well take him to play basketball and learn Taekwondo, which can not only exercise the body, but also consume the energy of the child, and turn the child's "hyperactivity" into a specialty.

04 like to save pocket money

Some children will spend their money in three days after they get the pocket money. However, some children are different. They will not buy the snack toys at will but save them.

Although waste is not a good habit, some children are excessively thrifty, and the habit of saving money blindly also makes parents headache. Their family is definitely not short of money. Why are children so thrifty?

Generally, children who like to save pocket money have strong self-control, and usually understand that it is not easy for parents to earn money.

In the face of such children, parents don't have to worry too much. Children with strong self-control will be in good order when they grow up. They will also be very well-organized when they get married.

05 I love telling stories

This kind of children is not the same as "little chatter". They often pester you to tell stories to him or let him tell stories to you. Sometimes they especially like to play the characters in the stories.

If you listen to the stories made up by these children themselves, you will find that they often come up with a lot of ideas, such as "horses run and fly to the sky", "houses built on white clouds" and so on.

Maybe some parents can't help correcting their children and telling them that what he said doesn't exist. But in fact, this is a big taboo, which will kill the creativity of children.

In the face of this kind of children must not interrupt their thinking and ideas, this kind of children's imagination is very rich.

Parents can try to ask their children to write down or draw their own ideas. Children with rich imagination will be gifted with literary or artistic creation in the future!

When your child shows the above characteristics, never scold or complain about the child blindly. The child has a strong self-esteem and excessive scolding will only make the child have a shadow in his heart.

Sometimes timely communication and guidance will help children's growth better.

Let's cheer, understand children, support children, let children grow up healthily and happily, and have a better future!